Pleasure & skills · Guide for men
Better Oral Sex
Consent, confidence, comfort and safety: a respectful guide to giving pleasure.
17 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download
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What's inside
- The Sound Engineer's SecretKayode explains.
- Consent, Comfort and CleanlinessBefore anything else.
- Principles for Giving Pleasure to a WomanListening, not guessing.
- Receiving WellFor men and every partner.
- SafetySTIs, HPV and simple protection.
You also get
- Clear illustrated diagrams
- "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
- A "when to see a doctor" checklist
- A printable worksheet
- Research sources, so you know it is real
Read the opening
From chapter 1, "The Sound Engineer's Secret". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.
Thursday, 9:20pm. The Car Park Sessions. A question nobody wants to ask first.
Jide wrote ORAL SEX on the whiteboard. The car park went very quiet. Several men suddenly became fascinated by their shoes.
"Nobody taught us," said Obinna finally. "We just guessed. Or copied things from videos."
"And some of us grew up being told it was dirty," said Chuka. "Or that men should not do it."
Then Kayode, the tall sound engineer, spoke up. "Can I share something? Bisola told me I got a lot better when I started treating it like my job."
"Your job?" asked Dapo.
"I am a sound engineer. My whole job is listening. Small adjustments. Paying attention to tiny changes. Not changing things when they are working. I realised oral sex is exactly the same. Listen. Adjust. Keep what works."
The car park stared at him. Then Chidi slowly wrote LISTEN LIKE A SOUND ENGINEER on his hand.
Keep reading in the full guide.
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