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Pleasure & skills · Guide for men

How to Be a Better Lover

Everything the Car Park Sessions learned, reviewed by the people who matter most: the partners.

17 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. The Cake BoxThe partners speak.
  2. The NotesWhat the partners wrote.
  3. The Better Lover WheelEight habits.
  4. What Great Lovers Stop DoingThe quiet mistakes.
  5. The Car Park GraduationForty-nine books later.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

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From chapter 1, "The Cake Box". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Thursday, 9:00pm. The Car Park Sessions. Amara arrives in person for the first time, with Adaeze in a sling and a white cake box under her arm. The box has a slot cut into the lid.

The car park went quiet when Amara walked in. They had heard her voice on video calls for months. Seeing her in person, with baby Adaeze asleep against her chest, was like meeting a celebrity.

"Good evening, gentlemen," she said, placing the cake box on the bonnet of Jide's car. "For months, you have asked each other how to be better lovers. You have asked doctors, physios, massage teachers and nurses. But you have never asked the most important people." She tapped the box. "Your partners."

"What is in the box?" asked Dapo, nervously.

"Eleven anonymous notes. From eleven partners. I asked one question: 'What makes a man a truly great lover?'"

Thirty men leaned forward at once.

JideYou actually came to the car park.
AmaraI wanted to see their faces when I opened the box.
JideHow were the faces?
AmaraTerrified. Especially Dapo.
JideDapo is always terrified. It is part of his charm.

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