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Life stages · Guide for women

Great Sex After 40

More confidence, less nonsense and the best years you did not see coming.

18 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. "My Life Is Over"Funmi turns 40 and panics.
  2. What Gets BetterConfidence, communication and caring less about nonsense.
  3. What ChangesBodies, hormones and how to adapt.
  4. Keeping Long Love ExcitingNovelty, dates and rediscovering each other.
  5. The Staircase UpFunmi, one year later.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

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From chapter 1, ""My Life Is Over"". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Friday, 8:00pm. Funmi's kitchen. Two days before her 40th. A glass of wine. A crisis.

Funmi, Jide's big sister, had come a long way since the Case of the Missing Libido. Her thyroid was treated, her mood was better, and Kunle had become, in her words, "a man who does bedtime without being asked." But now she was turning 40, and she was sitting at her kitchen table looking at old photos with the expression of someone at a funeral.

"Look at me at 25," she said, holding up a photo. "Look at that skin. Those arms. That energy. I am about to be 40, Amara. Forty. My body is changing, my kids are growing, and I feel like the fun part of my life is behind me."

Amara took the photo, looked at it, then looked at Funmi. "You look happier now."

"I look older now."

"You look happier AND older. Those are not opposites."

AmaraJide, Funmi is having a 40th crisis. She thinks her sex life is about to end.
JideWhat? She and Kunle are doing great now. She told me last month they are "better than ever."
AmaraShe is scared it will not last. That 40 is a cliff.
Jide40 is not a cliff. 40 is a staircase. Going UP.
AmaraWhere did you get that?
JideI made it up just now. But I read the research. It is basically true.

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