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Menopause & hormones · Guide for women

Sex Through Menopause

Hot flushes, honest talk and a sex life that keeps getting better.

31 pages · 7 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. The Change Nobody ExplainedWhen your mum starts texting at 3am, something is happening.
  2. What Is Actually HappeningThe science of hot flushes, dryness and disappearing desire.
  3. Dryness Is Not DestinyLubricants, moisturisers and treatments that actually help.
  4. Desire After the ChangeWhy wanting may feel different, and how to invite it back.
  5. For the PartnersUncle Bayo learns to stop moving into the spare room.
  6. Treatment OptionsWhat doctors can offer, from hormones to physiotherapy.
  7. Sex Can Be Better Than BeforeRedefining intimacy with more time, more trust and less pressure.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

Read the opening

From chapter 1, "The Change Nobody Explained". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Wednesday, 3:12am. Amara's phone lights up. Then again. Then again.

AmaraMummy?? Are you okay??
AmaraIt is 3am.

The replies came in a rush of capital letters, the way Ngozi always typed when she was upset. I AM ON FIRE. NOT ROMANTIC FIRE. ACTUAL FIRE. MY SHEETS ARE WET. YOUR FATHER IS SNORING LIKE A GENERATOR.

Amara laughed into her pillow, then felt guilty, then laughed again. Her mother was 51, a retired headteacher who still corrected strangers' grammar in restaurants. She had never once discussed her body with her daughter. Not periods, not sex, nothing. The birds and the bees talk in their house had been one sentence: "Do not bring shame to this family."

AmaraMummy, I think this is menopause.
AmaraCan we talk about it tomorrow? Properly?

There was a long pause. Three dots appeared and disappeared four times. Then: Okay. But bring cake.

The next afternoon. Ngozi's kitchen. Two slices of red velvet. One ceiling fan on maximum.

Jide had come along because Amara said he was "good with aunties," which was true. Aunties loved him. He was polite, he complimented their cooking, and he always took a second plate.

JideAunty, good afternoon. You look well.
AmaraJide, she is sweating through her blouse.
JideShe looks well AND hot. In the temperature way. Sorry Aunty.

Ngozi fanned herself with a church programme and, to everyone's surprise, burst out laughing.

"My children. Sit. If we are going to talk about this, we talk properly. Nobody told me anything. My mother told me nothing. I will not do the same to you."

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