Relationships & life · Guide for men
Ask for What You Want
Wants, wishes and the "yes, no, maybe" list: how to ask without pressure and hear "no" without sulking.
17 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download
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What's inside
- Two Years of RehearsalKayode's secret.
- Know What You WantBefore you ask anyone.
- How to AskAppreciate, ask, invite.
- Hearing "No" or "Not Yet"The real test.
- The Yes, No, Maybe ListA tool for couples.
You also get
- Clear illustrated diagrams
- "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
- A "when to see a doctor" checklist
- A printable worksheet
- Research sources, so you know it is real
Read the opening
From chapter 1, "Two Years of Rehearsal". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.
Thursday, 9:30pm. The Car Park Sessions. Kayode stays behind after everyone leaves.
The car park emptied. Kayode stayed, leaning on Jide's car, hands in his pockets.
"Remember I said I have been rehearsing something for two years?"
"I remember."
"It is not dramatic. That is the embarrassing part." He looked at the sky. "I want Bisola to start things sometimes. Initiate. I always start. For six years. And sometimes I wonder if she even wants me, or if she just says yes because I asked."
Jide nodded slowly. "That is not small, Kayode. That is about feeling wanted."
"Is it silly? A man wanting to be wanted?"
"It is one of the most common things men tell researchers," said Jide. "Many men say feeling desired by their partner is one of the biggest things that switches their desire on."
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