Relationships & life · Guide for men
Talk to Your Partner About Sex
How to start the conversation, what to say, and how to listen, even if you would rather fix a car.
17 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download
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What's inside
- Nine DaysEmeka's longest sentence.
- Why It Feels So HardShame, silence and pride.
- How to StartTiming, tone and the soft start-up.
- How to ListenThe harder half.
- Keeping It GoingSmall talks, often.
You also get
- Clear illustrated diagrams
- "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
- A "when to see a doctor" checklist
- A printable worksheet
- Research sources, so you know it is real
Read the opening
From chapter 1, "Nine Days". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.
Thursday, 9:05pm. The Car Park Sessions. Emeka, the engineer, is a guest speaker. He has notes. Of course he has notes.
Emeka stood in front of the whiteboard holding index cards. He was Amara's husband, a structural engineer, a calm man who liked things measured and tested. He cleared his throat.
"I have been asked to talk about talking," he said. "Which is ironic, because I am terrible at it."
The car park laughed kindly.
"When Amara and I were first married, I wanted to tell her something I liked. Something small. That I liked it when she kissed my neck. It took me nine days to say it. Nine days. I rehearsed it in the car. I nearly said it at dinner four times. When I finally said it, she said, 'Oh! Okay!' and did it. That was it. Nine days of fear for a two-second conversation."
The car park was silent. Then Kayode the sound engineer said, "Nine days is fast. I have been rehearsing something for two years."
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