Relationships & life · Guide for men
When Your Libidos Don't Match
When one of you wants more and the other wants less: how to stop the tug of war and find your middle.
16 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download
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What's inside
- Nine HandsThe secret nobody talks about.
- Two Kinds of DesireSpontaneous and responsive.
- Stop the Tug of WarThe pursue and withdraw cycle.
- Find the MiddleA menu, not a yes-or-no.
- Check the EngineWhen low desire needs a doctor.
You also get
- Clear illustrated diagrams
- "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
- A "when to see a doctor" checklist
- A printable worksheet
- Research sources, so you know it is real
Read the opening
From chapter 1, "Nine Hands". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.
Thursday, 9:20pm. The Car Park Sessions. A question that changes the room.
Jide wrote on the whiteboard: MISMATCHED LIBIDOS. Then he turned around.
"Quick show of hands. Who wants more sex than their partner?"
About twenty hands went up.
"Now. Who has a partner who wants sex more than they do?"
Silence. Then one hand. Then another. Then nine hands. The men with their hands up looked around, amazed to see each other.
Segun, a thirty-seven-year-old banker, kept his hand up the longest. "My wife, Lola," he said. "She wants it three or four times a week. I am happy with once. Maybe. And I feel like there is something wrong with me. Men are supposed to always want it."
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