Relationships & life · Guide for men
Your First Time: What to Expect
Readiness, consent, condoms, nerves and the truth about "lasting": an honest guide for young adult men.
18 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download
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What's inside
- The SecretKelechi's confession.
- Are You Ready?Honest questions.
- ProtectionCondoms and contraception.
- What It Is Actually LikeNerves, lasting and myths.
- AfterFeelings, and what comes next.
You also get
- Clear illustrated diagrams
- "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
- A "when to see a doctor" checklist
- A printable worksheet
- Research sources, so you know it is real
Read the opening
From chapter 1, "The Secret". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.
Thursday, 10:15pm. The car park is empty. Kelechi helps Jide pack up the whiteboard. Then he stops.
"Can I tell you something?" Kelechi said, holding the whiteboard at an awkward angle. "My friends think I have had sex. I told them I had. Two years ago. But I have not. And now I am twenty-two and I feel like the only one."
Jide put down the marker. "You are not the only one. Not even close."
"Everyone at uni talks like they do it every weekend."
"Everyone at uni is exaggerating," said Jide. "Researchers have found that young people consistently overestimate how much sex their friends are having. And plenty of people in their twenties have not had sex yet, for all sorts of reasons. Waiting until you are ready is not a failure. It is a decision."
Kelechi let out a breath he seemed to have been holding for two years.
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