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Mind & desire · Guide for men

Get Your Libido Back

When a man's desire goes quiet: the causes nobody mentions and the plan that brings it back.

19 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. The SurpriseEmeka's desire disappears.
  2. The New Dad EffectWhat happens to fathers after a baby.
  3. Other Common CausesBeyond babies.
  4. Bringing It BackA plan that works for many men.
  5. Back AgainEmeka and Amara, three months later.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

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From chapter 1, "The Surprise". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Sunday, 10:00pm. Amara and Emeka's bedroom. Baby Adaeze is ten months old and finally sleeping through.

After ten months of broken nights, feeding, crying and chaos, baby Adaeze had finally started sleeping through the night. Amara felt like a new woman. Rested. Herself. And for the first time in almost a year, she felt desire. Real, spontaneous desire.

She rolled towards Emeka, kissed his neck and whispered something.

Emeka, very gently, said, "Can we... not tonight? I am just not feeling it."

It was the fourth time that month.

Amara lay awake for a long time. She had spent a year worrying that her own low desire would hurt him. She had never once imagined it would be the other way round.

AmaraJide, I need to ask you something, man to man. Well, woman to man.
JideGo on.
AmaraEmeka's desire has disappeared. Since the baby. Now that mine is back, his is gone. Is that normal?
JideDid you ask him?
AmaraHe says he does not know why. He feels bad. He says he loves me.
JideLet me talk to him. Men sometimes say more to men.

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