Mind & desire · Guide for men
Stay Present During Sex
How to stop thinking about work, scores and performance, and actually be there.
17 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download
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What's inside
- The Stock ListIdris confesses.
- Why Men DriftPerformance, pressure and the "problem-solving" brain.
- Tools for the MomentAnchors that bring you back.
- Practice Outside the BedroomTraining the attention muscle.
- Being ThereIdris, one month later.
You also get
- Clear illustrated diagrams
- "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
- A "when to see a doctor" checklist
- A printable worksheet
- Research sources, so you know it is real
Read the opening
From chapter 1, "The Stock List". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.
Thursday, 9:15pm. The Car Park Sessions. A show of hands.
"Honest question," Jide said. "Who has ever thought about work during sex?"
Thirty hands went up. Dapo raised both. "Invoices," he said, very seriously.
Idris, the calm pharmacist, raised his hand slowly. "Stock levels," he admitted. "Last week, in the middle of things, I remembered we were low on paracetamol. I could not stop thinking about it. Zainab noticed. She said, 'You are in the pharmacy, aren't you?' I was in the pharmacy."
The car park howled with laughter.
"What else do we think about?" Jide asked.
"Whether I am doing it right," said Chidi.
"Whether I will last," said Bolu.
"Whether the baby will wake up," said Emeka.
"The football score," said Obinna. Everyone booed.
Keep reading in the full guide.
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