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Desire & libido · Guide for women

How to Feel Sexy Again

Reconnecting with the part of you that feels alive, desirable and free.

17 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. "I Forgot Who I Was"Nkechi at the Feel Good Club.
  2. Where It WentThe thieves of feeling sexy.
  3. Coming Back to YourselfSmall, daily acts of sensual self-care.
  4. How Partners Can HelpDapo takes notes. Seriously.
  5. The Gold DressNkechi, one month later.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

Read the opening

From chapter 1, ""I Forgot Who I Was"". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Saturday, 3:00pm. The cake shop, closed for the Feel Good Club. Eight women. Red velvet. Honesty.

Nkechi was 38, a nurse with three children, and the woman who had once confessed to faking for eleven years at Amara's first women's meeting. Since then, things with Dapo had improved enormously. But today she sat in the corner holding her cake without eating it.

"Things are better with Dapo," she said when it was her turn to speak. "We talk. He listens. But I still do not feel... sexy. I feel like a mother. A nurse. A cook. A driver. Somewhere along the way, I forgot the woman who used to dance at parties and wear red lipstick. I forgot who I was."

Around the room, heads nodded. Several people put down their forks.

"When was the last time you felt sexy?" Amara asked gently.

Nkechi thought for a long time. "My sister's wedding. Nine years ago. I wore a gold dress and danced until 3am."

JideDapo asked me how to help Nkechi "feel beautiful again." I told him I would ask you.
AmaraShe came to the Feel Good Club today. She said she forgot who she was.
JideOh. That is heavy.
AmaraBut it is also fixable. Feeling sexy is not really about how you look. It is about how you feel IN yourself.
JideCan you explain that to Dapo in football terms?
AmaraAbsolutely not.

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