Desire & libido · Guide for women
When Your Libidos Don't Match
One of you wants more, one wants less. Here is how to stop fighting and start meeting in the middle.
18 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download
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What's inside
- Chidi's ConfessionA reverse of what everyone expected.
- Two Sides of the Same HurtHow it feels for each partner.
- Understanding Desire DifferencesWhy one partner wants more.
- Meeting in the MiddlePractical solutions that respect both people.
- What Chidi LearnedAnd what Adaora learned.
You also get
- Clear illustrated diagrams
- "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
- A "when to see a doctor" checklist
- A printable worksheet
- Research sources, so you know it is real
Read the opening
From chapter 1, "Chidi's Confession". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.
Thursday, 9:15pm. The car park after football. Chidi raises his hand. For once, not to take notes.
Chidi was the youngest regular at the men's meeting after Tobi: a 27-year-old graphic designer with round glasses, the famous "still on shift" hand notes, and a girlfriend, Adaora, he had been with for three years.
"Can I say something that might be weird?" he asked.
The car park nodded.
"Everyone always talks about men wanting sex more. Wives who say no. But in my relationship... it is me. Adaora wants sex most days. I want it maybe once a week. And every time I say no, she thinks I do not find her attractive. And I feel like less of a man. Because men are supposed to always want it."
Nobody laughed. Dapo put down his malt drink. Obinna nodded slowly. Even Tobi, the teenager, looked thoughtful.
"Chidi," Jide said finally. "Thank you for saying that. I think you just helped half this car park."
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