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Connection · Guide for women

Dating and Sex After Divorce

Healing, dating apps, first times again and protecting your heart and your health.

17 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. Eighteen Years LaterYemisi steps back into the world.
  2. Are You Ready?Grief, healing and knowing what you want.
  3. Dating SafelyApps, first dates and trusting your instincts.
  4. Sex Again, After So LongNerves, bodies and comparing.
  5. Protect Your HealthSTIs, testing and contraception.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

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From chapter 1, "Eighteen Years Later". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Saturday, 2:00pm. Yemisi's living room. Two teenagers pretending not to listen. A laptop. A dating app.

Yemisi was 46, a secondary school principal with two teenage sons, a sharp tongue and a laugh like a bell. She had been married for eighteen years. Two years ago, the marriage ended. The divorce had been painful and slow. Now, her friends kept telling her it was time to "get back out there."

"Out where?" she said, staring at the dating app on her laptop. "Amara, when I last dated, we used landlines. Men called your father first. Now there are... swipes? What is a swipe? Why is this man holding a fish in every picture?"

Amara, bouncing baby Adaeze on her knee, laughed so hard the baby laughed too.

JideHow is Yemisi getting on with the app?
AmaraShe asked why every man is holding a fish.
JideIt is a universal mystery.
AmaraShe needs better photos than her passport picture, though.
JideI will take them. I have a good camera. I will make her look like a queen.

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