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Connection · Guide for women

Get Out of Your Head During Sex

Quiet the commentator, come back to your body, and actually feel it.

19 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. The Commentator and the To-Do ListTwo brains that will not stop talking.
  2. What Pulls Us OutThe five most common kinds of thoughts.
  3. Coming Back to Your BodySimple tools that work in the moment.
  4. Practise Outside the BedroomTraining attention in everyday life.
  5. Firing the CommentatorJide and Amara report back.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

Read the opening

From chapter 1, "The Commentator and the To-Do List". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Sunday, 11:00am. The rooftop café. Hibiscus. Mocktail. A very honest confession.

AmaraCan I tell you something weird?
JideIt is Sunday. Weird is allowed.
AmaraLast night Emeka and I were... together. It was nice. And halfway through I realised I was mentally writing a shopping list. Eggs, butter, food colouring, the good vanilla.
JideHAHAHAHA.
AmaraDo not laugh! It was the good vanilla, Jide. I was very focused.
JideOkay, I will confess too. I have a football commentator in my head. During sex. Live commentary.
AmaraWhat does he say?
Jide"And Jide makes his move... is this a good angle... will he last... the crowd is getting nervous..."
AmaraTHE CROWD?
JideThere is always a crowd, Amara.

They laughed until the waiter came to check on them. But underneath the laughter, both knew this was a real problem. Neither of them was fully there during the moments that mattered most.

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