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Comfort & body · Guide for women

Feel Confident in Your Body During Sex

Stretch marks, soft bellies, strange noises and the freedom of not caring.

18 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

  1. Lights Off, T-Shirt OnTwo best friends discover the same secret. Again.
  2. What Partners Actually NoticeThe research, and one very honest conversation.
  3. Your Body Is NormalStretch marks, cellulite, vulvas, bellies and everything else.
  4. Building Body ConfidencePractical steps, from gentle to brave.
  5. Lights OnWhat changed.

You also get

  • Clear illustrated diagrams
  • "Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
  • A "when to see a doctor" checklist
  • A printable worksheet
  • Research sources, so you know it is real

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From chapter 1, "Lights Off, T-Shirt On". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Saturday, 12:00pm. A clothes shop fitting room. Amara, Kemi and a lot of rejected dresses.

Amara stood in front of the fitting room mirror in a red dress she had loved on the hanger. Now she was pinching her stomach and frowning. Kemi, in the next cubicle, was twisting to look at the stretch marks on her hips.

"I hate these," Kemi said quietly. "Seyi has never seen them in daylight. I always make sure the lights are off."

Amara looked at her own reflection. "Me too. Since Christmas. Lights off."

"Why do we do this?"

"I do not know. Because every photo online is edited? Because our aunties comment on everything?"

"Amara, you have gained weight!" Kemi said in a perfect impression of every aunty at every party. They both laughed. But it was not really funny.

AmaraJide, strange question. Do you ever feel self-conscious about your body during sex?
Jide...Why do you ask?
AmaraKemi and I both insist on lights off. We realised we are hiding.
JideI wear a T-shirt. During sex. Since I stopped playing football at uni. My stomach is not what it used to be.
AmaraJIDE. A T-SHIRT?
JideI know.
AmaraDoes Tolu mind?
JideShe asked me last week why I never take it off anymore. I made a joke. She did not laugh.

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