Comfort & body · Guide for women

How to Get Wet

Arousal, lubrication and why your body and mind do not always agree.

22 pages · 5 chapters · PDF · instant download

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What's inside

The Desert IncidentKemi has a question she has been too embarrassed to ask for a year.
How Lubrication Actually WorksBlood flow, glands and a bit of plumbing.
When Body and Mind DisagreeArousal non-concordance, explained properly.
Common Reasons for DrynessFrom the pill to antihistamines to stress.
How to Help It AlongTime, lube, comfort and treatment.

You also get

Clear illustrated diagrams
"Myth vs fact" and "Try this" boxes with practical steps
A "when to see a doctor" checklist
A printable worksheet
Research sources, so you know it is real

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From chapter 1, "The Desert Incident". Every guide is written like a story, with real research behind it.

Friday, 7:00pm. Kemi's flat. Nail painting night. Amara on the floor, Kemi on the sofa.

Kemi was painting Amara's toenails lilac with the precision of a surgeon. She had been quiet for a while, which was unusual, because Kemi was never quiet.

"Amara. Can I ask you something embarrassing?"

"You painted my toes. You can ask anything."

"Sometimes I really, really want my boyfriend. Like, in my head I am completely ready. But my body is... dry. Like the Sahara. And he looks confused, and I feel embarrassed, and it ruins everything. Is something wrong with me?"

Amara sat up so fast she smudged a toe. "Kemi. No. There is a whole scientific word for what you are describing."

"There is?"

"Arousal non-concordance."

"That sounds like a disease."

"It is the opposite. It is completely normal."

AmaraJide, quick poll. If a woman is not wet, does it mean she is not turned on?

JideUm. Yes? Obviously?

AmaraWRONG.

JideOh no.

AmaraAnd if she IS wet, does that mean she wants sex?

Jide...I am scared to answer.

AmaraAlso wrong. Brace yourself. This book is for you.